Last night, over at the Starling Witches Facebook group, we talked about how some of those negative pieces of our shadow might actually not be our baggage to carry. Sometimes, things are thrust on us through trauma. So how do you heal those wounds and get rid of those behaviors that are tied to the trauma? Don’t worry… this isn’t some love and light bullshit, okurrt? So I’m not about to shove that whole forgiveness blah blah blah ish down your throats. I will never sit in front of you and try to convince you that your abuser deserves to